Undoubtedly, John Donne´s idea
of love is not a fixed concept. Love is seen as a complex feeling. In his
poems we can find a wide range of meanings according to different periods
of time in his life and according to his different attitudes towards love.
On the one hand, we can find a positive idea of love. Love is a sacred
state and an idealised concept. Thanks to the experience of love, lovers
can achieve self-fulfilment. Love is a kind of rebirth, a new life that
brings complete happiness to lovers. On the other hand, love is sometimes
seen from a negative point of view. Time and change are the great threats
to ideal love. In this way, feelings and attitudes such as disillusion,
anger and pain appear in Songs and Sonnets related to the idea of
love. When lovers cannot fulfil their expectations, love becomes a source
of disappointment for them. The idea of love appears associated with different
and even opposing notions such as life and death, passion and hatred. We
can find Platonic love in his poems, but we can also find the idea of love
as a mere physical and sexual experience. In my opinion, the great achievement
of Donne is his outstanding expertise in joining together different and
contradictory meanings of love in his poetry.